m: "so where are you going to go"
b: "I'm going to move into Isabelle's house"
m: "nope you can't move into their house they have their own family and their own rules - you can't go to any neighbors houses"
b: "okay fine I will figure something out"
So she heads off into our front lawn and just sits on the rock under our tree - of course Chris and I were peering out the window to watch for her next move. She then comes back to the door and comes in.....
b: "mom do you know any families that don't have two kids or any kids at all?"
m: "nope I sure don't"
b: "okay thanks I'm gonna go again"
15 more minutes back on the rock thinking, thinking.......this is when the plan starts to go south, so she had many things working against her at this point......it was almost 90 degrees and humid out, it was 15 minutes before we eat lunch, and Friday afternoon with everyone out at work and school........so she finally comes back to the door
b: "guys I have made my decision......"
m: "oh yeah whats that?"
b: "I have decided to stay with my family"
D: "and live by our rules?"
b: "yep and live by your rules - even if I don't like them"
Then she continued to give us both huge big bear hugs
m: "welcome home"
So a lot of drama for a four year old - but I think it was worth it she really thought things through and hopefully it will set in a little bit that every family has rules and not everyone likes those rules but we still follow them! But Chris and I are immediately researching local boarding schools..... :)
So two days later I catch a glimpse of the suitcase that was carelessly tossed to the side once we were all reunited......and I was ever so curious to find out what she really packed for herself.......this is what I found.
5 pairs of pajamas
2 shorts
1 scrapbook of her teachers from school that she made (a girl after my own heart!)
no food, no drink, no necessities .....but hey that is what mom and dad are for right???
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